I can imagine that many expectant parents and young parents would be happy if they could read a book or watch a class or a DVD to the task as a mother and a father of the web are. Perhaps an increased level of marketing has brought about the flood of parenting advice - but more than ever seem that parents need to rely on these things. Unfortunately, no two babies are identical and so the idea of a unified approach does not work.
An idea to note, from the beginning thatto change the so-called 'experts' recommendations at regular intervals. For example, sixty or seventy years, the perceived wisdom was that a baby cried not immediately be picked up, because that would train him to expect instant attention. Instead, the realization from the beginning was the baby will fit into a routine was an essential preparation for his familiarity with the realities of life in the aftermath.
Dr. Benjamin Spock was the first child care experts, was against the conventional wisdom of the time. Whether you agree or not he thought he was very influential in changing Western society views of parenthood. He argued that children as individuals who do not fit into a disciplined routine and that cuddling and kissing babies cry when they do not spoil him, it should be treated. Over the years, bringing many other child care experts with different opinions about the right and wrong way caused> Baby.
My first hand experience in parenthood began more than thirty years and during that period, in spite of Dr. Spock and others, having more mothers to family and friends and especially her own instincts to figure out how they cope with their new bundle of joy . The provision of childcare from pounds was a rarity, but doctors and midwives were available to provide assistance where necessary.
And although I definitely do not consider myself an expert on child care, I wanted toOverview of the main things that helped me, believe me and my children, so that it can provoke your thoughts and ideas:
* In conversation with my children during breast-feeding and bottle feeding: that in the surrounding area and increases the bond between us.
* In good weather, I found that our baby to sleep helped implement in the shipyard in the baby stroller and gave them plenty of fresh air. I know that this is not the practice in those days as the fenced yards is not alwaysMany mothers must work and walkers have replaced the traditional pram.
* When using a routine was very important for us, but then the opposite views. Bedtime was read by a bath before and then a feed, plus a story that once they were old enough to understand. This routine is carried on in later childhood and I think it relaxes them and helped them to have a better night's sleep.
* Promote language development throughDiscussions. I would talk to them at every opportunity and everything that came to mind, whether we were from the supermarket, driving around, getting dressed or just cleaning the house.
* Apart from the time during the day for quality time and sharing - I used to do my homework before dinner, and then the rest of the day was devoted exclusively to children.
* Presenting a united front with the children when it comes to matters of discipline and routine. Children are onlyfor large a wedge between Mom and Dad, even though they are very young, so we treat all Mom and Dad debates, when the children were not around.
* Consistency: We were always willing to explain what were the "rules" and we worked hard to keep the same rules wherever possible, because our children seemed to respect and respond.
All this is far from a comprehensive plan, and it certainly should not be used as a fixed code of conduct, as itis not suitable for every family. Some parents are different types of this dilution, which are equally successful, have - and in particular different babies react differently. There is no "repair manual" you can use! But you can find tips to give you some ideas of your own child-rearing tasks.
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